catch the scent of desperation from someone instantly, and it is
normally those who are stuck in the abyss. They often say they want to
help others, but ultimately they will damage others if they are not
careful, as they first need to look at themselves.
They tend towards
being passive aggressive, they don't mean to, they just can't help
themselves when they are faced with someone stronger than them. They
often make remarks intended to belittle the person they feel is stronger
than them, in order to make themselves feel better. They even model
their targets behaviour, in the hope that they might gain the respect
This person is stuck in the dark night of the soul, and is
desperately unhappy, yet trying to show a happy face to the world. But
it can not be hidden, people do pick up the vibes and back away, causing
the frustration to get worse. All they need to do is stop trying to be
everything to others, stop trying to be something they are not, stop
trying to show a false public image, because you are fooling no one.
Instead remember to look inside and realise what you need to do to heal
yourself first, before offering to help others. You can not help others
when you are trapped in your own self made hell.